Dear Reader,
Cant believe its Day 4 of 2019. Its incredible how fast days pass. I observed few things so here they come :-
1. Problems are opportunities for growth: I think I Love listening to other people's problems especially when they come to me seeking for help/ solution. Everyone has their own Journey & there are difficult things in people's way to deal with and its endearing somehow to see people in Pain and a mental attitude where they cannot seem to help themselves out of it. Even though I simply don't like those who blame other people and situations as a habit and manipulate others for attention. Personally, I feel genuine Compassion for those who seek solutions & feel disappointed by those who are manipulative for small gains. However, those who are genuinely & innocently undergoing harrowing situations listening to them makes me feel grateful for all the things I have in my life, also they teach me to have courage to make life better through determination.
2. Music is my natural source of joy. Especially singing & listening to songs. The best part is I am not into just one type of music. The exposure I got due to my family template includes everything right from Bollywood to Rock to Hiphop to Electronic to Instrumental and so much more. There is a wide variety for everyone on planet Earth, but I feel special & lucky & for the type of music I have attracted in my life.
3. Gold-digger Men- I also learnt that some people actually choose Money over Love and I learnt that even some Men are Gold-diggers and they get attracted to a girl who can provide them with a flashy lifestyle as compared to someone who doesn't really care about showing-off would bring in a loving heart. It's just DAY 4 of my daily journal and I feel I am lucky to learn how to trace gold-digger men. The typical things they do is pretend to be rich so that they attract a wealthy woman to end up with her in order to get an easy lifestyle. And, maybe thats their priority, but remember one thing when a woman pays for a man's needs, she will want him to be slave not a Lover. Its a low frequency relationship because such females feel that till the time they don't spend on someone they won't be getting Love and Men by nature are Hunters. They want to take care of their family and partner and be a provider. If your Man is not a good provider then it also means that deep in your heart there are Patriarchal wounds that need healing & once you heal those wounds, either your man's behaviour towards will change or a new man will enter your life.
4. True Lover - A true lover will notice everything about you. He will pull your leg all the time, he might even order you to Love him without battling an eyelid. Still, he would treat you delicately like a flower that needs tendering. He will scan you with admiration, notice what you wear, how you laugh and even enjoy the mess you make. He would be very confident about you and demand your time and attention. Both of you are charmed by each other, but there is something in his eyes that makes you more special. In the world of Feminism, this man would want you to be independent but he would appreciate it a lot more if you let him pay the bills and allow him to make you feel fancy. He would touch you in a way that he wants to make you feel loved and healed. An important is a True Lover is also a Self-Made man, he doesn't want to take favours from other people and would make his own path using his ideas and determination. He got your love also through the application of same determination. And, he likes to work hard for you, if he is the hunter, he would toil in the Sun for a good life that he can provide to you. Don't see him as a competition, rather enjoy what he does for you, for the ways he makes you feel special.
4. Pups & Dogs make life so beautiful & full of positivity. It's true that if you are with a Puppy you cannot be depressed. They are an animated bundle of joy that can lighten up anyone's mood. Although I like all types of dogs but my favourite are Indian breed of dogs for a number of reasons like their strong immunity and intelligence to survive. ALSO - to those who bully dogs and physical torture them are the most disgusting people. One more thing that came to my observation is that Pets also come and go as per Divine Timing. They are placed on our timeline in a manner that you cannot plan. All my Pets have come to me out of the blue especially when I had no idea it would happen. I tell people to not buy pets for the simple logic that you don't buy family members either from a store. They too come to us in Divine Timing. So wait for the Pets, incase you want one.
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