False Twin flame Identification

Hello Dear Soul,

Since you have somehow landed on this page and looking for this information, I would like to congratulate you because you have finally started figuring out that you could be in a False-twin Relationship. In all honesty, it's a great thing to have happened to you because otherwise you could have gotten yourself to be stuck in this pattern for a very long time. You are lucky that you have started paying attention to some key details on which you were earlier getting manipulated 'on and off' like a loop. You obviously questioned your sanity many times and now it's time to make the big changes. 

It's important to know that once the connection with your False twin gets fully established things begin to change. The False twin wants to feed off from your energy because they are unable to attain spiritual growth through their own being & behaviour. Their programming is to manipulate anyone who is in equal partnership with them. For this type of feeding the Energy Vampires need a spiritually advance person who has certain areas to be worked upon further. This is the reason why this type of a a relationship witnesses the 'breakup and patch-up' phase so many types. Once the Energy Vampire drains you out, they leave you alone feeling miserable and you need time to come back to your senses and detachment takes place. But the moment you have fully revived and started attracting other suitors your False twin would be back looking for you. This happens so many times in a false twin relationship that it gets difficult to keep a track of. 

So First of all... Relax !

Mentioned below are some key points that can help you decide in what direction do you want your relationship to go to. But don't forget that everything that happens in your life actually flows through you. So, its absolutely in your hands to fix this situation by observing your own self talk towards the things you desire. 

1. False twin appears like True Love but you also know that it only is 'appearing' to be so. When you are in a False twin relationship you always have this doubt. You feel that this person may or may not be the One for you and their behaviour confuses you. You are not 100% sure about this person. 

2. There is a lot of dependency towards this relationship. It feels like you are sucking each other's energy and in most cases you feel like the Victim and when you run away and start feeling better without this person, then that's the time he/she comes back. This type of Tug-of-War creates frustration and you want to truly let go but are unable to do. 

3. Feeling of being Controlled by your Love Interest and a need to Control them too. 

4. This person makes you feel that he/she is obsessed by you and there's a lot of sexual attraction and intimacy on a regular basis. However, the worst part is that it doesn't feel so good and this sexual chemistry creates a lot of control and mental manipulation. And if you are the one looking for this information then be 100% sure that you are the one who is being controlled and you want to break free. But the relationship gives you a thrill and there's lot of drama and you don't know whether this type of drama is stemming from True Love or it's all just a need based arrangement. 

5. Both Soulmate & False Twin-flame are Karmic Connections. There are some Karmic connections that are very pleasant but they don't last long and as long as they are there, the soul doesn't grow much. It makes the Soul stagnant and sooner or later, the stagnancy is bound to create a lot of discomfort. When you meet the False twin-flame, you always have a strong inkling that it's not the real deal. A Karmic connections helps you to do a lot work and doing this work will help you attract True love eventually. 

6. Efforts have to be made in order to make the relationship work, lots of formality and pacifying too. The false twin's family is also a pain in the ass and if you are searching for information about this, then you are having a tough time dealing with the Drama caused by the False-twin's family and friends. You see that there is dependancy & neediness all around your False twin and you have also begun to look extremely needy fighting for what you truly deserve. 

7. Intense Sexual Chemistry is present all throughout this relationship. The need to merge with this person ALL THE TIME is the theme. Plans, outings, phone conversations and most meetings are centred around this theme. Whereas in True love it's actually the opposite where intimacy is natural and you would have fallen in love with the person long before even touching their skin. 

8. You feel drained and exhausted even after a simple conversation with the False twin. Even when you think about them mentally you feel uninspired and confused. You are not happy and feel terrible being with this person. Many a times you question why are you even in this relationship. You are a giver and they are at the receiving end, someone who is constantly asking for emotional support and act as if it's never enough. Your False-twin may even use words like 'I am depressed' and have a list of problems like blaming their family, legacy, age, origin and mostly are a failure in life but never admit it. They know how to take other people's sympathy, so Beware ! 

9. Dream Invasion: You will have lucid and realistic dreams about your false twin. You would see a story and sometimes the false twin would have traveled in your dream. There is always a message to the dreams related to your false twin but you won't be able to decode them fully. It's only when you are out of their trap all the dreams would make complete sense. When you try to decode your dream, you will feel more anxious, confused and drained. Many a times, the false -twin is close enough that you would share the dream with them and they would further manipulate you on that information. 

10. Both of you would be obsessed about each other in a very emotionally harmful way. You would fantasise and obsess all the time. Even when you are together you would constantly be chatting, calling or meeting each other with a feeling of obsession and neediness. You would stalk each other on social media and be watchful of each other's moves. You would ask for constant validation from this person and would get it only when they want something from you. False twin relationships are very arrangement based. Whenever you are out of this person's life you would find out they know about every single move of yours and would you shock you with the details when you connect again.

11. Once the False twin knows clearly that they cannot take any more from you, they will quickly move on to their next victim. It would be hard for you to digest this but feel lucky that you finally know that you were trapped by a false twin. Don't keep any space for them to return. Just wish them well and hope they heal 

How to make sure you are NOT with a False Twin / False Twin vs. True Love

False Twin vs. Truelove

As per the false twin process, you meet one right before you meet the real one. And they help you to do the final preparation work. In some cases, people mention that they met their Twin after their got married or were into a commitment with their false twin & in some cases they met the real twin right after false twin relationship got over. 

While into such an arrangement, it can be difficult to believe that you are with a false twin but there is always a nagging doubt from the very beginning. You can say that your false twin keeps you away from true love. This relationship loses its grip and reaches a final full stop, the moment you realize that you are into one. After this moment of realization and strong decision-making, the false twin starts losing their grip on you and cannot control you anymore. 

• They feel like the Real Deal (all signs are there) Your false twin flame will appear to be your ‘perfect mirror’ at the beginning – until they reveal their true self. 

• A False Twin helps you to accept who you are. A True twin helps you to be the best you can be.

One-Sided Awakening & One-Sided Relationship

It's a One-sided relationship as YOU are more into them. Not only this relationship is remarkably one-sided, it's only you who feels the need to evolve. Your partner would not be genuinely bothered. With time they would appear to be less or least interested in ascension or growth. They won’t have much to do with unity & singularity. They believe more in destiny and blame game. Most of the times the false twin would show annoyance, irritation & keep mocking you & pulling you down on your ideas. With time, you would know that its like any other relationship you have had which gets more & more toxic if you keep holding on to it. But, with your true love, you both experience the relationship in its full power, be it the bliss or the heartache because you are united. 

The Game of Manipulation: The false twin manipulates you on emotional & physical levels time and again. You won’t find them around you, when you need them. And, there would be days, weeks & sometimes months without any calls or e-mails or a single word from them; but when they are around, they would show you (or pretend) that it's hard for them to live without you for even a second. How much they missed you even when it was their own decision to go away from you #Narcissist

Dreams: The false twin will appear in your dreams often. The dreams are vivid and movie like, sometime plots a bit hard to digest or decode. You would never forget these dreams because they always coincide with real life, like a message that you wouldn't want to accept at first. These dreams hold profound meaning about the false twin's reality. When you wake up & try to understand what the dream was about, you feel more drained & depressed. You obviously would understand the meaning. But be strong and think about your highest good. 

Its Hidden (Secrecy): Your true twin flame has a deep soul connection with you and there is nothing to hide. There are no veils & curtains. Both of you open up in front of each other at the soul level & understand each other's emotions. But false twin will hide who they are, so that you never find out about their agendas & see their Real Image. 

The other thing is that they would keep their relationship with you to be secret, they might have other sexual entanglements or they are heavily programmed you to accept you as who you are. 

A Jealous Twin: False twin makes you feel Guilty for your achievements. They are never happy with your success as it makes them feel insecure. They are always full of jealousy and make it difficult for you to grow in this kind of Frequency. Your true twin would be happy for your success and celebrate it as a team.

Uncertainty all throughout: You begin to feel, you are no longer sure that this person is your true love. Once your preparation work is done and you have gone totally deep within, the spirit guides know that you are ready for your true twin, to embark your purpose that you were always meant for. The Guides connect with you through your inner voice / intuition & give you the Power you need. You feel it more and more in your veins & guts, that this is NOT the real deal. There would be too many separations & diversions with false twin, on & off relationships, long separations, patch-ups, but once you and your twin is together, there will be no separation whatsoever. Real twin doesn't play with emotions and then go away, like in the false relationship. False twin will feed on to your Energy, when they are Full, they always Leave you with some excuse which is mostly unacceptable, and when they feel the Thirst again, they come back to drain you. Its Crazy, but they would even mention it to you sometimes, that they need your Energy!

Giving up / End

Ending this relationship might be one of the most difficult things you have done, simply because it was close enough to be True Love.

"SOMETHINGS WERE REAL ABOUT IT" & yet 'Some things' are never enough, isn’t it...? Because you gave your ALL to it & tried more than your best. This in itself makes you feel the Peace. And, don't worry about them because they will move on a little too quickly for your liking & with this you will embark upon your true twin flame Journey. The whole relationship will help you gain perspective on what the false twin flame relationship was truly meant for. Mentioned below are some of the sure-shot signs to watch out for... All the very best for it! 

1. Commitment fades during Challenge / Crisis   - A False Twin Flame's Commitment won't exist during Challenges and Crisis situation, whereas with Real Twin even if it's not an easy relationship (most relationships can have bumps or obstacles) the Commitment will be strong & clear. 

       

2. False Twin Relationship is there to bring issues of the past which are otherwise hidden & helps you to let go of the burden permanently by showing you that Love means freedom, trust & support and you don't need to trade your happiness and self-respect to get love from someone. False twin is abusive & controlling in many ways. It’s through them that you learn that Love is never equal to abuse of any kind & emotional abuse is also as bad as physical abuse. So keep an attitude of gratitude towards the false twin and release them with love & prayers, as they are more miserable than you know, and yet that doesn't mean that anyone deserves to be with such a partner.

3. False twin creates anxiety & gets jittery because they are always in survival mode and looking for an escape from life's problems.

4. With false twin there will always be trust issues but with true love you can blindly trust them in any matter. It’s also more sexual in Nature than more spiritual.

5. False Twin would not fulfill their Promises and the word they give. True Lover won't commit to anything until they aren't sure & when they do commit it would done for sure.

 6. False Twin won't treat you like 'Family' or their Own. There will always be a Gap & the Relationship would be in a Limbo State VS. True Love Relationship is fully clear even if it’s not an Easy One/ or there are big Differences in Personality, Age or Financial status. In some case, it can be the work they do or their background/ Nationality, however they Love you publicly & personally the same way.

7. False twin makes you feel weak & left out, their Intentions are not clear & mostly they would be selfish in thinking about only their own comfort. There would be a constant effort to HOLD ON, while with the true twin; the relationship is effortless & natural even if you have differences.

8. False Twin moves on to other people very quickly & openly without thinking how it would make you feel, or those who are connected to you (Family/ Friends). False Twin would need constant validation from opposite sex to feel good about their existence, so cheating is a choice they make consciously. True Lover is Loyal & Loving. They may have fights with you but they won't take such an extreme step, that too so many times. Twin Flame relationship talks about the '7 stages' and they do mention Crisis, however if you are going thru this type of toxicity more than once, then its a pattern and a sure shot sign that you are with a False Twin, who would not accept if you choose someone else over them because they feel entitled to demonstrate bad and immoral behavior.

9. False Twin can be aggressive & abusive. They could be addicts for many years. Real Twin respects your opinions & they don't have addictions.

10. True twin has never had a relationship even close to what you have together & they’ll be cognizant of that fact too, that they are clearly in love with you, whereas, false twin would have a secret relationship with you or something that's On & Off. They live separate lives; real twin loves you for all your perfect imperfections.

11. False twin is easily threatened by your success because they have lots of insecurities about them. Your success means they cannot manipulate and control you. Also a false twin would be extremely jealous and make you feel guilty for doing well in life and try to pull you down regularly. But they cannot hear anything against them even if they have asked for a feedback. This type of pattern exists in people who don't have many achievements in life or they depend on other people for survival, therefore it’s hard for them to support and cherish what their partner does. This too is a clear sign of a false twin relationship. A real twin would have worked hard like you and they value other people's efforts and potentials. Mostly they are independent since a very early age.

12. False twin is stuck at basic Survival. Real Twin knows how to thrive with you as a Team.

13. A False twin will meet you at the very beginning of your awakening process. It's not necessary that you would date them immediately but Your True twin instantly know he/ she is in Love with you. They enter in your life when you have faced your Pain Bodies and have much clarity on how to gain overall abundance in Life. They help you see what it would take to live a completely aligned and abundant life- TOGETHER. They focus on the Love you share not on the differences.

14. False Twin is always on a different page & wastes your time. Arguments with them might not end on the table, rather sometimes into wounds, bruises, pills or medication. They are a serious threat to your peace of mind. Real twin flame values your time & respects your Opinions. They cannot, even in their dreams imagine hurting you. There is a feeling of Acceptance with a True Lover.

15. False Twin gives excuses to avoid commitment & tire you with their talks. True Lover doesn't waste your time and would ask for commitment and prefer to be sure that you are also not playing around or giving mixed signals to them.