Have you been broken in Love ?
Do you feel you were so deeply connected to someone, that it's difficult to let go ?
Do you still feel being backstabbed or let down by the one you loved?
Or,
Is it the feeling that even though you knew it wasn't the right person for you from the first day and the relationship was never meant to happen, yet you kept giving your heart & soul and that was a big mistake?
Are you unable to fall in Love again & get close to someone who has a deep connection with you, simply because of the fear of heartbreak ?
When we fall in Love, we put our heart and soul into it. If the Love is True, then the whole thing would be Real for you, not just some parts of it. Even Death cannot put a full stop to Love and that's evident when we feel exactly the same way for the ones who have crossed over. Every emotion including the negative ones are real in Love. The ones that germinate from frustration and anger also have the base of Love.
If any part of Love is not pure or true, it will turn one-sided sooner or later. Yet, someone is always there to give it their all & expect it be to forever. Also, you can't stop loving someone, but even when it's seems to be a failure it always teaches us to let go of unwanted emotions, of baggage that only makes the Traveler's journey slow and difficult. It teaches you to keep only what makes you strong and authentic so that you can SHINE. Love also teaches us to move on and look back at the past only with reflection & gratitude. After all, why shouldn't you feel gratitude for changed times and achieving a better understanding of human nature.
Heartbreak teaches you the difference between attachment and connection. Only the way you Love that person changes because you become a well-wisher, someone who can pray for the one whose gone astray. Praying to the Universe to shower the one who you loved, with happiness & hope that they smile from within, feels more natural than complaining about how much they hurt you or the things that weren't under your control. You also begin to feel that judging them for their wrongs is futile because you weren't perfect either & some people are placed at different junctions of your life to show you all your flaws that you need to get rid of. So they have played an important role in your journey. There is no feeling of needing to claim any of their success. You don't want to even dwell that somehow you helped them to find a way to fulfil their key desires because you have learnt that wanting credit for other people's growth stops your own growth and makes you bitter.
You wish deeply that even if you didn't achieve harmony with that person, they should be blessed with harmony and joy in their journey, with someone else. It's always painful to see the end, but even the end always comes with new beginnings and we must learn to thank the whole process. Love is selfless, so what if a relationship did not work out? A tag in a relationship isn't important as long as the intention is to wish the best for each other.
(P. s. This is deep:
All realities exist at the same time. You may not be together in this dimension but somewhere you could be connected. From the eyes of the Ultimate Observer everything can be seen. There are unlimited possibilities & you can create as many realities as you want, as many worlds as you like. But you always must choose the best solution, not the right or wrong solution, but the best decision that's good for you and also for the others. Its always about the CHOICE. So, How far down the Rabbit hole do you really want to go because there is never an end to growth and exploration of probabilities. You can literally create any reality and do whatever you want. There is NO LIMIT !)
Do you feel you were so deeply connected to someone, that it's difficult to let go ?
Do you still feel being backstabbed or let down by the one you loved?
Or,
Is it the feeling that even though you knew it wasn't the right person for you from the first day and the relationship was never meant to happen, yet you kept giving your heart & soul and that was a big mistake?
Are you unable to fall in Love again & get close to someone who has a deep connection with you, simply because of the fear of heartbreak ?
When we fall in Love, we put our heart and soul into it. If the Love is True, then the whole thing would be Real for you, not just some parts of it. Even Death cannot put a full stop to Love and that's evident when we feel exactly the same way for the ones who have crossed over. Every emotion including the negative ones are real in Love. The ones that germinate from frustration and anger also have the base of Love.
If any part of Love is not pure or true, it will turn one-sided sooner or later. Yet, someone is always there to give it their all & expect it be to forever. Also, you can't stop loving someone, but even when it's seems to be a failure it always teaches us to let go of unwanted emotions, of baggage that only makes the Traveler's journey slow and difficult. It teaches you to keep only what makes you strong and authentic so that you can SHINE. Love also teaches us to move on and look back at the past only with reflection & gratitude. After all, why shouldn't you feel gratitude for changed times and achieving a better understanding of human nature.
Heartbreak teaches you the difference between attachment and connection. Only the way you Love that person changes because you become a well-wisher, someone who can pray for the one whose gone astray. Praying to the Universe to shower the one who you loved, with happiness & hope that they smile from within, feels more natural than complaining about how much they hurt you or the things that weren't under your control. You also begin to feel that judging them for their wrongs is futile because you weren't perfect either & some people are placed at different junctions of your life to show you all your flaws that you need to get rid of. So they have played an important role in your journey. There is no feeling of needing to claim any of their success. You don't want to even dwell that somehow you helped them to find a way to fulfil their key desires because you have learnt that wanting credit for other people's growth stops your own growth and makes you bitter.
You wish deeply that even if you didn't achieve harmony with that person, they should be blessed with harmony and joy in their journey, with someone else. It's always painful to see the end, but even the end always comes with new beginnings and we must learn to thank the whole process. Love is selfless, so what if a relationship did not work out? A tag in a relationship isn't important as long as the intention is to wish the best for each other.
All realities exist at the same time. You may not be together in this dimension but somewhere you could be connected. From the eyes of the Ultimate Observer everything can be seen. There are unlimited possibilities & you can create as many realities as you want, as many worlds as you like. But you always must choose the best solution, not the right or wrong solution, but the best decision that's good for you and also for the others. Its always about the CHOICE. So, How far down the Rabbit hole do you really want to go because there is never an end to growth and exploration of probabilities. You can literally create any reality and do whatever you want. There is NO LIMIT !)
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